(Disclaimer; All of this is just my own opinion and personal truth at the moment.)
I love integrity its so cool when you truly understand the vibrations of integrity. See, because having integrity is being honest and you know that you can trust someone with integrity. Some of the biggest problems in relationships is about trust issues. When you can’t trust the one your with that will trigger things like jealousies and insecurity’s within us, but when you know the one your with has integrity you know they would never do anything to intentionally hurt you.
The best way to build trust with your partner with your lover or in business or in family and friendship relationships, IS to have integrity. Another words; to naturally build trust in any relationship you need to live with integrity present. Integrity earns trust.
People respect other people with integrity because of;
~ Accountability – Responsibility – Vulnerability ~
My friend Stephane from ideaGasms.net says that 85% of the population on the planet is below the Integrity Line. If that is true, then you can trust that you can’t trust 85% of the business deals you make with people and 85% of the relationships you have out there. That’s right. You can trust that you can’t trust them.
So it is my judgment that one can trust that 85% of the people out there will lie, cheat and steal. People that live below the integrity line are very unconscious and unaware of the lie they are living, “People of The Lie”, because they see the lie as their truth.
Below the integrity line is a state of being detached from oneness, from allness and from God (all the same thing). I am “selfishly” all about helping to raise the vibrations of this planet and I believe above the line of integrity is a higher quality of vibration then below it. Thus a higher quality of experience we all get to live.
As a business owner, I have people trying to sell me things all the time. If I don’t know them how can I trust them when I know right of the bat there is an 85% chance that they are lying to me whether they know it themselves or not?
Unless you are paying attention and screening for integrity with everyone you have relations with then how do you know if you are working with the top 15% of people that have integrity? How do you know you can trust them? If they don’t have integrity you can’t, or you can trust that you can’t trust them.
Qualify Them.
The first and for most thing to do in order to recognize integrity in others is to first know it intimately within your own self. Then you will know what you’re looking for. You know the vibration and what it feels like. It’s compassionate listening with-out-judgment and the way to do that is to first have done it yourself. I think that the more one learns about integrity and has a moment to moment life practice of living with integrity, the easier it will be to know when you see integrity in someone or not. “It Takes One To Know One!”
Sometimes you can just look into someone’s eyes and see and know if they have integrity or not. You will see in their eyes a soft present compassionate grounded loving gaze. And you will know it as your own. You will be connected.
Also pay attention to ones actions including body language. Are they doing kind or mean things? Are their actions for the greater good of all or selfishly only for one’s disconnected self? Are they low down and shameful with ego, or are they high, bright and blissful with love and integrity?
To see the quality of behaviors and true intentions that others have, I really pay attention to the language people are using and to the quality of words they use. I also watch their physical interactions with their selves and others.
The way people talk will tell you if they have integrity or not.
Superficial vs. Deep Conversation
*Do they talk about topics that have very little value or substance?
*Are they talking about other people behind their backs? Gossiping about others? *Do they make stuff up?
*Are they sarcastic, dishonest or tend to lie about things?
*Do they ask but really don’t want to know?
*Do they always tell the same sad story, or are they stuck in their story?
VS.
*Are they present and aware of what is going on in the moment?
*Do they care? Are they sincere? Are they grounded when they speak?
*Do they come from the heart with compassion?
*Are they asking because they really want to know?
*Do they want to know your core?
*Do they love you as you are?
*Are they respectful with direct open honest communication?
*Do they get straight to the point when it’s time for business?
*Do they have a sense of humor?
My Theory
My theory is that most people don’t know a lot about integrity, and that there is a need to learn and teach the vibration of integrity on this planet today. I think the world needs to see the value of living fully with and of integrity.
My theory is that by reading what one has to say about integrity we can get a feel for the level of one’s integrity/vibration/energetic value, and it may be a big or small feel but I think it says something about the people that will do it in the first place.
I also feel that the more we each express our own personal understandings and awareness’s of integrity and similar vibrations we put focused energy on it as a collective holding this high vibration can and will only manifest peace and unconditional love in the long run.
This is a call to action, a call to step up and take a stand, a call of growth and awakening, a call of Integrity, a call and challenge to help raise the conscious awareness of this planet, to create a world of unconditional love, honesty, truth, integrity, happiness, joy, compassion, beauty and peace from the inside out.
My theory is this could be an Integrity Movement, spread over the internet with twitter, facebook and other social networking sites.
I believe that integrity shapes your character and gives high quality value to your Being. Integrity is having high personal ethics and is at the heart level of unconditional-love-oneness-consciousness. Integrity doesn’t do things that are not for the greater good of all, but also evaluates everything it does do with intentions of serving the greater good of all.
My beautiful wife Leah displays integrity in both her professional and personal relationships, always wanting the best for people. She is honest and she speaks her truth. She cares so much for her own health that she can’t help but care about everybody else’s health as well.
Leah has a strong level of self integrity when it comes to the food she puts into her body. She cooks with integrity because she puts so much love into it, it’s not just because she has a passion for cooking but it’s because she also is educated and health conscious holistically. She also has a passion for your well being. Her integrity shows by the people she hangs out with and builds long term relationships with. The information she studies, and her intention of being a healer of love for the world is having integrity.
Leah is kind hearted and has so much love to give. One of the many beautiful things about Leah is she has such an open heart. When we first meet she gave me a heart shaped rock that I still have to this day.
She had good intentions from the beginning of our relationship. That’s integrity!
It feels so good to be in a relationship based on integrity. With integrity we can work (and play) through anything in life together.
My Integrity Vision and Intention
*I see a world where every government and religious figure has raised their level of integrity to share with the world.
*I see a world where people only watched TV stations from the ones that all owners and employees have integrity.
*I see a world where all parents know and embody integrity for setting an example for their children.
*I see an online spreading of integrity awareness.
*I see Integrity giving us courage for facing our shadows and demons.
Can you imagine if those that wanted to be elected President of the United States had to first come and answer these questions on integrity and leave their answers in the comment box for all people to see and read? Then we would really get an idea and sense of the quality vibration of who they are and why we can trust them or not.
Can you imagine if every time someone tried to sell you something, you would first come here to see if they have posted their response so you know better if you can trust them or not?
Can you imagine if we as consumers asked the owners of big business to come and answer these questions about integrity before we did business with them? Would that raise industry and economic standards of businesses, corporations, governments, religions and personal relationships? I think so…
What if this was one of the best places online people can come to read what you have to say on integrity, to get a better idea and energetic vibe of you in order to decide if they want to have a relationship with you or do business with you?
TheCompassionateSoul.com Vision of Integrity
*This is a place to help spread the word and vibrations of integrity, unconditional love and compassion to help bring trust back into the hearts of men and women.
*This is a place to hold high standards of intimate relationships and business ethics right out in the open for everyone to read and comment on.
*This is a place to be authentic, honest and open and to leave your contact info if you like, to state what you do for a living and or what your passions are.
*Likewise this is a place for you to send potential business partners and or intimate partners to see if they are in alignment with this vibration of raising the level of the planet with integrity. (This is also the same vibration of unconditional love and compassion.)
- I would love to know your questions about integrity.
My next blog post will be an Integrity Challenge Invite Page with questions of Integrity for you to answer if your game and want to play.
Help spread the awareness and vibration of integrity by sharing this blog post with your facebook friends and re-tweet this post for your twitter followers…
Blessings,



Wow Jeremy,
It’s nice to meet a person who is ready to come forth from a place of openness. I always enjoy your posts. You raise awareness of social issues.
You have a passion for integrity and honesty. Awesome.
Thanks for sharing your passion and your thoughts,
Val
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
April 21st, 2010 at 2:50 am
Thanks and your welcome!
Blessings
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I believe that integrity is a characteristic of someone who has full of wisdom and deep in terms of understanding. Most people are not aware of their actions, and few are wise enough to emancipate from their ignorance. It is unfortunate, this fact of life.
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
April 21st, 2010 at 2:52 am
Hi Walter thanks for reading and commenting
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Jeremy
Wow – 85% are below the integrity line? That is very sad to say, isn’t it? You are so right that the integrity must start within yourself before you can help other people recognize it as well. Great post and keep spreading your wisdom to others:)
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
April 21st, 2010 at 2:54 am
hey Glyna,
maybe it is just karma playing out the way it does. but that’s way we work on it from within.
thanks for your comment
Blessings
Jeremy
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I love this topic of integrity. Shocking and sad that 85% of our world lives without much of it, but inspiring as well with your words of wisdom. I agree completely that integrity is a vibration that you can sense from one being to another. We must follow that intuition in our relationships and hold people accountable for displaying integrity (especially those in power). I also love the idea of an ‘integrity movement’, only amazing things will come of it. I’m looking forward to the next post. Thanks for the thought provoking and inspiring post once again.
Danielle
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
April 21st, 2010 at 2:56 am
Hi Danielle,
thank you for your comment
yes lets start an Integrity Movement!
Blessings
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Jeremy
I hope there are still a significant number of people conducting their business with integrity. Unfortunately I think on the internet people find it easier to let their integrity slide a little because they aren’t face to face with someone else and sometimes they cut corners. Its like the old question of what you do when no one else is around. I really don’t know how how many are below the integrity line, but there does seem to be a more “casual” attitude about integrity nowadays.
Great post!
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
April 21st, 2010 at 2:57 am
Hey Steve thanks for your comment
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You said it all my friend. Integrity is the backbone of success. I have been in business for around 30 years and Integrity has been the backbone of my business. I am an intuitive counselor, I have over one thousand clients over the years. I have a repeat clientele because of Integrity.
I have taught other up and coming psychics how to develop a business and most failed because of greed and ego. There are a few however, that made it. And those are the ones I work with and send my overload to.
In a relationship of any kind especially between two people, it is important to have that energy. To me life is all about pure energy. If you yourself have integrity, you will attract the same energy. Oh yes, sometimes things slip under the wire, but that can be easily cast out.
Your blog explains so much. You are a very spiritual person and a very old soul. Keep it up. The world needs this energy. Each day I pray for this little planet that goodness will prevail. Hey, with people like you in it. It gives me hope. Regards, Donna Merrill
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 11:13 pm
Hi Donna,
thanks so much for commenting on my post
It was really nice talking to you on the phone the other day, thanks for the chat!
Thanks for having integrity and seeing it in me, that gives me hope.
Blessings
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Jeremy,
Integrity should be the foundation point of any relationship, you break that trust and you may never be able to repair it. Thats an amazing figure 85% below the line. WOW.
Thanks for the post, look forward to the followup!
Bill
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 11:16 pm
Hi Bill,
thanks for reading and stopping by my site and for commenting.
The followup is posted now.
Blessings my friend
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Wow Jeremy, I really appreciate the depth of your passion and your commitment to raising the collective vibration of integrity ~ something that is much needed! Your vision and intentions are crystal clear and incredibly powerful, and I look forward to being a stand for your movement to spread integrity awareness!
I feel blessed to have been raised with a father who without question embodies integrity better than anyone I’ve ever known. I sometimes have even said that he’s integral to a fault sometimes……but I guess he’s making up for that shocking 85%! Yikes!
I look forward to your Challenge page ~ sounds incredibly inspiring!
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Jeremy Creager Reply:
May 12th, 2010 at 11:20 pm
Hi Beth
Wow, that is so cool and good karma on your part to come into this world with a father that is of integrity.
thanks for commenting and sharing your love here on my blog
Many blessings and hope you like the Integrity Challenge page
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Jeremy… GREAT Post, Brother!
Integrity… there is no substitute! You said it ALL!
Looking forward to future posts!
Chris
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Jeremy,
Insightful thoughts here my friend. I agree with you there is a tremendous need for more integrity in all of our relationships.
That 85% number got me to thinking. I can not say that I am too surprised, but neither do I want to believe it is that high! It is alarming to think we, as humans (who are supposed to the be the smarter mammals), operate at such a low level of integrity,
Anyway, great post my friend.
Blessings,
John
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