(Disclaimer; All of this is just my own opinion and personal truth at the moment.)
I love integrity its so cool when you truly understand the vibrations of integrity. See, because having integrity is being honest and you know that you can trust someone with integrity. Some of the biggest problems in relationships is about trust issues. When you can’t trust the one your with that will trigger things like jealousies and insecurity’s within us, but when you know the one your with has integrity you know they would never do anything to intentionally hurt you.
The best way to build trust with your partner with your lover or in business or in family and friendship relationships, IS to have integrity. Another words; to naturally build trust in any relationship you need to live with integrity present. Integrity earns trust.
People respect other people with integrity because of;
~ Accountability – Responsibility – Vulnerability ~
My friend Stephane from ideaGasms.net says that 85% of the population on the planet is below the Integrity Line. If that is true, then you can trust that you can’t trust 85% of the business deals you make with people and 85% of the relationships you have out there. That’s right. You can trust that you can’t trust them.
So it is my judgment that one can trust that 85% of the people out there will lie, cheat and steal. People that live below the integrity line are very unconscious and unaware of the lie they are living, “People of The Lie”, because they see the lie as their truth.
Below the integrity line is a state of being detached from oneness, from allness and from God (all the same thing). I am “selfishly” all about helping to raise the vibrations of this planet and I believe above the line of integrity is a higher quality of vibration then below it. Thus a higher quality of experience we all get to live.
As a business owner, I have people trying to sell me things all the time. If I don’t know them how can I trust them when I know right of the bat there is an 85% chance that they are lying to me whether they know it themselves or not?
Unless you are paying attention and screening for integrity with everyone you have relations with then how do you know if you are working with the top 15% of people that have integrity? How do you know you can trust them? If they don’t have integrity you can’t, or you can trust that you can’t trust them.
The first and for most thing to do in order to recognize integrity in others is to first know it intimately within your own self. Then you will know what you’re looking for. You know the vibration and what it feels like. It’s compassionate listening with-out-judgment and the way to do that is to first have done it yourself. I think that the more one learns about integrity and has a moment to moment life practice of living with integrity, the easier it will be to know when you see integrity in someone or not. “It Takes One To Know One!”
Sometimes you can just look into someone’s eyes and see and know if they have integrity or not. You will see in their eyes a soft present compassionate grounded loving gaze. And you will know it as your own. You will be connected.
Also pay attention to ones actions including body language. Are they doing kind or mean things? Are their actions for the greater good of all or selfishly only for one’s disconnected self? Are they low down and shameful with ego, or are they high, bright and blissful with love and integrity?
To see the quality of behaviors and true intentions that others have, I really pay attention to the language people are using and to the quality of words they use. I also watch their physical interactions with their selves and others.
The way people talk will tell you if they have integrity or not.
Superficial vs. Deep Conversation
*Do they talk about topics that have very little value or substance?
*Are they talking about other people behind their backs? Gossiping about others? *Do they make stuff up?
*Are they sarcastic, dishonest or tend to lie about things?
*Do they ask but really don’t want to know?
*Do they always tell the same sad story, or are they stuck in their story?
*Are they present and aware of what is going on in the moment?
*Do they care? Are they sincere? Are they grounded when they speak?
*Do they come from the heart with compassion?
*Are they asking because they really want to know?
*Do they want to know your core?
*Do they love you as you are?
*Are they respectful with direct open honest communication?
*Do they get straight to the point when it’s time for business?
*Do they have a sense of humor?
My theory is that most people don’t know a lot about integrity, and that there is a need to learn and teach the vibration of integrity on this planet today. I think the world needs to see the value of living fully with and of integrity.
My theory is that by reading what one has to say about integrity we can get a feel for the level of one’s integrity/vibration/energetic value, and it may be a big or small feel but I think it says something about the people that will do it in the first place.
I also feel that the more we each express our own personal understandings and awareness’s of integrity and similar vibrations we put focused energy on it as a collective holding this high vibration can and will only manifest peace and unconditional love in the long run.
This is a call to action, a call to step up and take a stand, a call of growth and awakening, a call of Integrity, a call and challenge to help raise the conscious awareness of this planet, to create a world of unconditional love, honesty, truth, integrity, happiness, joy, compassion, beauty and peace from the inside out.
My theory is this could be an Integrity Movement, spread over the internet with twitter, facebook and other social networking sites.
I believe that integrity shapes your character and gives high quality value to your Being. Integrity is having high personal ethics and is at the heart level of unconditional-love-oneness-consciousness. Integrity doesn’t do things that are not for the greater good of all, but also evaluates everything it does do with intentions of serving the greater good of all.
My beautiful wife Leah displays integrity in both her professional and personal relationships, always wanting the best for people. She is honest and she speaks her truth. She cares so much for her own health that she can’t help but care about everybody else’s health as well.
Leah has a strong level of self integrity when it comes to the food she puts into her body. She cooks with integrity because she puts so much love into it, it’s not just because she has a passion for cooking but it’s because she also is educated and health conscious holistically. She also has a passion for your well being. Her integrity shows by the people she hangs out with and builds long term relationships with. The information she studies, and her intention of being a healer of love for the world is having integrity.
Leah is kind hearted and has so much love to give. One of the many beautiful things about Leah is she has such an open heart. When we first meet she gave me a heart shaped rock that I still have to this day.
She had good intentions from the beginning of our relationship. That’s integrity!
It feels so good to be in a relationship based on integrity. With integrity we can work (and play) through anything in life together.
My Integrity Vision and Intention
*I see a world where every government and religious figure has raised their level of integrity to share with the world.
*I see a world where people only watched TV stations from the ones that all owners and employees have integrity.
*I see a world where all parents know and embody integrity for setting an example for their children.
*I see an online spreading of integrity awareness.
*I see Integrity giving us courage for facing our shadows and demons.
Can you imagine if those that wanted to be elected President of the United States had to first come and answer these questions on integrity and leave their answers in the comment box for all people to see and read? Then we would really get an idea and sense of the quality vibration of who they are and why we can trust them or not.
Can you imagine if every time someone tried to sell you something, you would first come here to see if they have posted their response so you know better if you can trust them or not?
Can you imagine if we as consumers asked the owners of big business to come and answer these questions about integrity before we did business with them? Would that raise industry and economic standards of businesses, corporations, governments, religions and personal relationships? I think so…
What if this was one of the best places online people can come to read what you have to say on integrity, to get a better idea and energetic vibe of you in order to decide if they want to have a relationship with you or do business with you?
TheCompassionateSoul.com Vision of Integrity
*This is a place to help spread the word and vibrations of integrity, unconditional love and compassion to help bring trust back into the hearts of men and women.
*This is a place to hold high standards of intimate relationships and business ethics right out in the open for everyone to read and comment on.
*This is a place to be authentic, honest and open and to leave your contact info if you like, to state what you do for a living and or what your passions are.
*Likewise this is a place for you to send potential business partners and or intimate partners to see if they are in alignment with this vibration of raising the level of the planet with integrity. (This is also the same vibration of unconditional love and compassion.)
- I would love to know your questions about integrity.
My next blog post will be an Integrity Challenge Invite Page with questions of Integrity for you to answer if your game and want to play.
Help spread the awareness and vibration of integrity by sharing this blog post with your facebook friends and re-tweet this post for your twitter followers…